It is not about being petulant or rude, it’s about being confident (comfortable in your own skin.) I meet women in Medellin by just living my life.Every day I see gorgeous women walking up and down the street.I am actually Colombian, my family is Colombian, and more importantly (aside from my height, 6’2″) I look Colombian.I have lived my entire life, barring the past 5 years of course, in Southern California.Actually, I got more instant attention in Southern California; the “Latino effect.” The only thing that makes me stand out to women here is my height, thank God for that one tall great uncle! This is a big plus for me here because I’m naturally outgoing and funny, so I can really be myself when speaking Spanish.It is hard for one’s true personality to translate when speaking another language, but luckily I am a fluent Spanish speaker, and have learned enough Paisa slang to be my witty self.
When I first arrived here, there wasn’t yet a complete guide to dating paisa women.Imagine, our hands are on each other’s bodies before even knowing each other’s names.More often than not I’m not even interested in talking to the girl; I just want to dance and have fun. Amazingly, when I do that women are more attracted than when I start talking to them while dancing.At first glance Medellin women do not perceive me as a foreigner due to the way I look.So I do not have that instant “gringo effect” on them.