If you are a confirmed single woman, a spinster if you like and not skilled at living with someone full-time and not used to considering another person in your home.If you like being responsible only for yourself and enjoy the freedom of a single life. Most people will have little sympathy and tell you to get out now, that you shouldn't have had an affair and/or you shouldn't have allowed it to go on so long.In reality his marriage is no more or less happy than any other ordinary and average marriage.
As unfortunate as his wife's pregnancy is it might be beneficial for you after you have asked yourself those questions, to consider leaving things as they are.Then, in December 2007, Paul begged for another chance.Keen to give their marriage another go for the sake of their children, Adele agreed. Clinical psychologist Roy Shuttleworth says it is not unusual for partners who have been forgiven after an affair to struggle to make the relationship work‘We got back together afterwards for the sake of the children, but it couldn’t work because, instead of forgiving and forgetting, every time we argued — which was often — she’d sling insults at me for being unfaithful.’ Rebebba Troch, pictured on her wedding day with Marc, had been touring Europe as a dancer when she became pregnant with her first child, Chloe, 20.If my speculation is correct and he is an ordinary fellow you can also assume he is by nature a lazy person as men inherently are - he needs a quiet and uncomplicated life and will actively take the line of least resistance wherever possible.Before destroying his family, risking the lasting disapproval of his children and other relatives and tangling in long battles with lawyers when he will inevitably lose much of what he considers his, he will consider long and reject the idea until something happens that will light a fire under him and force him into action but because he is an average man with an average marriage and an average outlook the chances of anything lighting a fire under him are indeed very slim. I expect he always intended to leave his wife but it seemed an eternity until the kids would fly the nest so he had no immediate worries.