More than 700 of our readers, between ages 50 and 89, told us what activities they want in retirement communities.
The last I heard, my older ex was in a tumultuous relationship with another 20-something, this time a singer reminiscent of Björk.
We then compared and contrasted activities that interested at least 15% of our male or female respondents.
While there was a decent amount of overlap (everybody likes exercise, swimming and walking), a few activities stood out as unique for each sex.
crunched American Community Survey data to see where in the United States men outnumber women and vice versa.
The map below shows their findings for singles ages 45-64, the oldest group researchers analyzed.