If you aggressively pursue him then you run the risk of never seeing all sides of him. You are worth the effort it takes, and is required to date someone.You’re also telling him that you don’t trust he can, or will pursue you of his own accord. It takes patience to let a man to date you the way feels comfortable with, and some women just don’t have the patience to do it.You can typically judge a man’s interest by his actions. If this is the case, there is nothing you can do to change his mind.
Don’t try to fill in the gaps for where he should be showing interest and isn’t.” It’s a natural feeling to want to something but what you should do is: Dating is a waiting game because it depends a lot on timing. There is no need to go through the formalities of actual courtship, you are ready to forego all other men for his attention now.Unfortunately, most relationships don’t progress this way.Chill with the idea that dating is complicated, and scary that we need to make it easy on men. The idea of letting a man pursue you might sound old-fashioned but consider this: if you’re taking the reigns from the man then you’re missing out on a key part of his personality. The way he communicates with you, and romances you, and tries to impress you.All of those actions give you insight to his personality.