Even naughtier move: Before a date, entice your guy over to your place early, and let him watch you masturbate before you leave for the evening, telling him he can have his turn later.
"Side to side feels more relaxing and arousing." Even naughtier move: Have him tie your hands with a scarf and hang them on a hook on his door (the kind you would hang your coat or towel on) before he tantalizes you with oral.
Do it seated in front of a mirror with him behind you so that he has a great view of the action as well as a nice shot of your ass.
Start by touching your nipples with one hand and rubbing a thigh with your free one.
"Once a couple start having sex, hand jobs often stop," says sex educator Sadie Allison, author of Manhandling him will show your dirty desire to take charge.
Naughty move: Surprise him with a hand job when he least expects it.