Then why are you doing it for a guy who (for all you know so far) might be married or have incompatible politics?Would you delay your response for an additional 15 minutes, or occasionally not reply at all in a text conversation with your little brother?He's either a player or not interested enough, and either way you do best to forget about him. I don't usually start off a post with the impact points right at the beginning.But I want to lay these out first -- because they're so vital to solid message writing -- and we'll get into the "whys" and the "hows" in a moment.I was going to write about something else today -- I have a couple of big-concept posts I've been meaning to write up and get around to -- but, heck, the last post I put up was a big-concept post so I figured let's have a quick breather from that and get something a little lighter up first. I've been all too guilty of this myself -- sending super-long messages.and, in fact, get you exactly what you want: responses, phone numbers, dates, and success.Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone.
A very well-spoken and clearly an educated guy, he sent me a message detailing a situation with a girl he knew... The basic gist of today's post is, basically, that this -- what we're about to talk about -- is how you write online dating messages and emails that don't get ignored...So when he texts, answer him naturally, genuinely, authentically.If you find yourself thinking "I don't feel like replying right now," or "I'll get to it later," then don't reply at all, or tell him (tactfully) that you don't want to pursue a relationship.You've probably heard all kinds of suggestions from other girls about how long to wait before replying to a text from a guy you like.Some claim you should always wait 15 minutes, others insist on only replying to every other text, while others still dismiss "playing games" as ridiculous and advocate replying however you feel like in the moment. It will either make you come across as needy and too easy, or else cold and too distant.