When you train your brain to be biased towards seeing a particular outcome that will become your reality.
Therefore, the first step is to begin retraining the brain to see something different.
“Men over 50” and “Women over 50” named their top three dating complaints as… Women admitted to being clueless about where to meet men and about meeting too few new men.
As a dating and relationship coach for women over 40, Bobbi Palmer has written a curriculum she calls “Finding Hope and Finding Him.” Oh, and “yes, you can” if you MASTR the craft with essential dating rules she explains here: .
2) What you expect from people is what you will receive. When asked what qualities most attract them to women as partners (not just playmates), most men place [of qualities you’re seeking in a partner].
The image of men in their 40s, 50s, and 60s chasing after women half their age has driven many woman over 40 into my office.
Are there men who will seek out a younger woman given the opportunity? Is it a reality that by the time a woman reaches 65 her gender outnumbers single men 2 to 1? So are those the biggest factors that contribute to women over 40 having a hard time finding a match. In my 10 years as an online dating coach it’s become clear that the reasons why older women fail at online dating can be broken down into 4 major factors: mindset, lifestyle, chivalry, and algorithms.
After a week or two of changing your mantras, you will likely notice you are also, quite literally, changing your mind.
You are accustomed to a certain lifestyle and you should not have to change that for a man.