Ultimately, all I wanted from that single mom was to hook up, because that’s all I felt she could give me.Whether it’s fair or not is debatable, but that’s how I felt at the time.As a screenwriter, I don’t know if you live in LA or not, but this is a town where people don’t grow up for a really long time.I got married at 35 and had kids at 37 and 39 and I was ahead of most of my friends.Well, let me clarify: I have no shortage of “dates”. I have an outgoing personality and seem to be asked out a lot…
It seems almost impossible for men to see past that.
Single guys in their mid-30s who want to have their own biological kids in four years don’t.
They want to take spontaneous romantic trips to Vegas, which is something that’s hard to do with four children of your own.
Put yourself in their shoes and it’s pretty easy to see.
The fact that you’re caring, kind, loyal, warm, and intelligent means that you have a lot going for you and will ultimately make a guy very happy.