And yet there were a few people in my social circle who could – to put it charitably – punch well outside of their apparent weight class.
They were not classically handsome – in fact, many of them were fat and balding.
Fun people make others feel comfortable and have a better grasp on how to read people’s signs and moods and can adjust themselves as needed.
This makes the difference between someone who’s fun and someone who’s just a clown: fun people can find the line and know when things are appropriate or not while a clown tends to blunder on regardless of mood or intent.
The problem is that they’re working on the wrong areas and a misunderstanding of just what makes somebody appealing to women. more often than not it’s not even in the top 5 of what makes a man attractive.Who knew that one day you could turn it around and use those same skills as a part of a way of getting dates?However, as much as making people feel good makes them like us, there’s more to it.They knew how to make people They were genuine interesting people with stories to share and a genuine interest in getting to know the people they talked to. I began to see just how integral being was to a successful dating life…and I started to understand how to integrate it into my approach towards women.